Scottie Barnes has quickly become one of the Toronto Raptors’ cornerstones, but as his NBA career rises, so has public interest in his personal life. From long-term relationships to fatherhood, here’s a clear look at where things stand.
Is Scottie Barnes Married?
No, Barnes is not married. But since late 2024, the Raptors forward has been in a relationship with Alyssa Rae Holmes, a Toronto-based flight attendant and musician. The two have kept much of their relationship private, but Barnes has publicly acknowledged their bond through social media interactions.
He notably commented, “life with you,” under Holmes’ pregnancy post, confirming their relationship and his excitement about starting a family.
Barnes and Alyssa Rae Holmes: Expecting and Welcoming Their First Child
In September 2024, news began circulating online that Barnes and Holmes were expecting a child. While Holmes’ Instagram account was later set to private, screenshots of her pregnancy announcement, including a photo showing her baby bump with a black hand resting on it, spread across social media.
Barnes later confirmed the news more directly.
In October 2024, ESPN’s Brian Windhorst reported on “The Hoop Collective“ podcast that Barnes had missed part of Raptors training camp and their first preseason game for a personal reason. He had welcomed a baby into the world.
The couple’s daughter, Milli, was born in October 2024. Barnes was still present with the team during preseason activities but did not suit up, prioritizing the birth of his child.
The 24-year-old is now in the middle of his fifth NBA season not just as an All-Star, but as a father.
What Happened With His Ex-Girlfriend?
Before his current relationship, Barnes was in a long-term relationship with his high school sweetheart, Nari. According to her public statements in September 2024, the two had dated for nearly six years.
After their breakup, Nari shared her perspective on social media, claiming she supported Barnes throughout his early struggles before his rise to NBA stardom. She also alleged that he had moved on quickly and gotten another woman pregnant.
Although the original video was removed, clips and reposts circulated widely across social platforms, fueling online debate and speculation.
Much of the social media reaction also veered into discussions about race and dating dynamics, especially after it became known that Holmes is white. However, Barnes himself has not publicly addressed those controversies in detail, instead focusing on his career and family.
Barnes’ Career and Rise to Stardom
Drafted fourth overall by the Toronto Raptors in the 2021 NBA Draft out of Florida State, Barnes made an immediate impact. He won the NBA Rookie of the Year award in 2022 and earned his first All-Star selection in 2024.
In June 2024, he signed a five-year, $225 million contract extension, solidifying his place as the franchise’s centerpiece. On the court, Barnes continues to expand his game, averaging near All-Star numbers while anchoring Toronto’s rebuild.
Off the court, he has secured endorsement deals with brands such as Subway, Google, Sony PlayStation, and Canadian tissue brand Scotties.
